“If your compassion does not include yourself, it is incomplete.” — Buddha
Buddha Purnima, the day Buddha attained enlightenment, holds immense significance. Amongst his many teachings, there’s one that truly can transform our lives: self-compassion.
Interestingly, self-compassion is not a new idea; it has been a fundamental teaching of many ancient traditions, including Buddhism. In this article, we will explore the meaning and benefits of self-compassion, as well as practical ways to cultivate it in our daily lives.
Self Compassion Meaning
Self-compassion means treating ourselves with the same kindness, care, and understanding that we would offer to a good friend or loved one. It involves being gentle with ourselves, especially during difficult times, rather than being overly critical or judgmental.
Self-compassion also means acknowledging our common humanity and recognizing that everyone makes mistakes, experiences setbacks, and goes through challenging moments in life.
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Self-Compassion Lessons from the ‘Crab With a Tight Shell’
The term Self Compassion reminded me of the story of the crab with a tight shell. The crab was feeding on the sand when it realized its shell was getting tight. It decided to crawl under a rock and wait for its shell to crack open. And it did! The crab grew a bigger shell and was able to crawl back out into the open again.
When a friend or a family member is going through a tough time, you naturally want to show them compassion. You empathize with them and try to understand their emotions. You support them in any way you can, with kind words, reassurance, and even small gestures like treating them to their favorite food or a movie.
There are times when we all feel like hiding away from the world. We often hear a voice inside our head, telling us that we’re not good enough! We all have it, but sometimes it can be overwhelming. It’s okay to feel vulnerable and want to retreat. Just like the crab!
They protect themselves by retreating into their shell when they need to. It’s important to show ourselves compassion and take the time to care for ourselves – just like we would for a friend or family member.
Yes, self-reflection is important, but too much self-criticism can lead to more stress and anxiety. Studies show that those struggling with depression, PTSD, anxiety, and low self-esteem often have a constant negative inner dialogue.
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How To Practice Self Compassion?
Self-compassion means treating yourself as kindly as you would treat a close friend. By recognizing your struggles and being generous with yourself, you can alleviate your own suffering.
Experts suggest that by paying attention to your inner dialogue and intervening with kindness, you can help ease negative feelings.
1. Be kind to yourself instead of judging yourself too harshly
We all experience moments of failure or disappointment in life, but it’s important not to let these negative experiences take over our emotional well-being.
By giving yourself the space and understanding you need to navigate life’s challenges, you’ll find greater peace and emotional stability in the long run. So go easy on yourself and remember that you’re stronger than you think.
2. Understanding your place in the grand scheme of things can be incredibly liberating
Acknowledging that you are human, and, therefore, imperfect can take away the pressure of feeling alone in difficult situations. Cultivating self-compassion allows you to remember that you are not alone in navigating life’s inevitable highs and lows.
It’s a reminder that we all experience success and failure and that it’s part of the natural ebb and flow of life. So be kind to yourself, recognize your humanity, and know that you have plenty of company along the way.
3. Experience the power of mindfulness
The art of acknowledging but not getting carried away by your emotions. With mindfulness, you can easily identify your emotions without letting them control you.
This state of mind is non-judgmental and receptive, allowing you to observe your thoughts and feelings objectively without suppressing or denying them. You can join online meditation courses and practice it with experienced yoga teachers of India.
All We Want To Say Is:
Treating ourselves with kindness and understanding can make all the difference in leading a fulfilling life. On this auspicious occasion of Buddha Purnima, let us remind ourselves to practice self-compassion and spread compassion to those around us. May we all find peace and enlightenment on this journey called life.
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